I confess that we aren't very simple with our decorations. We love to make our home sparkle and shine, to the point that some may consider it gaudy. It's fun to pull out the same little trinkets and knick knacks that make us smile every year. They have little actual value except the history and memories.
Having the decorating done leaves me to enjoy the season in a more quiet way. With our calendar more clear this year (thank you, Covid), it feels possible to be content at home with what we have. Contentment is a gift you give yourself. When it's so easy to focus on what else is out there, choose to notice all that you already have.
Things may look a little different this year, so maintain whatever traditions you can. We have an annual evening of gingerbread house decorating. This year, I ordered "pick up" and the house walls were broken on some, but we made the best of it. I've had several orders cancelled or delayed and it sometimes feels overwhelming that I can't have or get what I want.
Our gatherings are limited, our travel is on hold, many activities are cancelled all together.
So, how will we spend our extra time and energy? Where can I focus to divert disappointment to opportunity?
I'm already enjoying more time at home, truly. The hectic pace has never been for me, but it creeps in with three school-aged children and their multiple calendars. Having the three of them under my roof more often is a sweet, treasured gift of this season. Even when we aren't all in the same room, I like to grab moments with each one individually to laugh, chat or work on something. It's been a special time.
I'm reading actual books. I'm watching holiday shows, both old and new. I've hand-written notes and I'm way ahead on actual wrapping. We are chatting and gathering and snuggling our pets more than ever.
It's a lovely time to be at home.
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