There are hundreds of list of the top needs for children and the basics apply in every situation. However, after living in a blended family for two-plus years AND talking with lots of others in similar dynamics, I feel I am coming to identify some unique needs to be found in second or non-traditional families. Here's the basic list, and I hope to unpack each one a bit more over the next few posts:
1. Security that your marriage will last, but so will your bond with each child. (More Here)
2. Honor the original bonds while nurturing new connections. (More Here)
3. A culture of peace and respect. (More Here)
4. Permission to express true feelings, but boundaries on complaint sessions.
5. Freedom to love the "other" part of their family.
Bonus: Unscheduled Time and Rest
I would so value hearing from others in mixed/blended/non-traditional family dynamics. What do you see as vital needs for the children and teens of these relationships?
More Thoughts on Blended Family Life:
Family Identity
Stepmoms Contribute
(Step) Family Table
Family Matters
Mine, Yours, Ours, What?
Stepping in the Mess
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