Like just about everything else, there isn't a "normal" in a blended family. We have to create our own kind of normal. Father's Day means that part of our crew will be out of the home, spending time with their bio-dad. I do my best to honor their dad and teach them to give value to the special times we set aside to remember those we love.
Mr. Wonderful is an amazing father and we will spend the day together with his daughters, doing something he loves. We will treat him a special lunch and make sure he knows how much we love him. I want my children, his step-children, to honor that bond, also. He is amazing at engaging them, disciplining and guiding them. I love the example he is of manhood! We face and uphill battle of competition from my ex-husband regarding the role of stepdad, so I use every opportunity to remind the children that he is the dad of this home.
Stepdads and Father's Day. There may not be a "normal" for blended families, but I'm so grateful for all the ones out there sharing their story.
Father's Day can be full of emotions and feeling. Each of us has at least some kind of Daddy Wound, but each of us can also find something to value about the father-roles in our life. I hope you spend your day with ones you love!
To my own Mr. Wonderful, you remain and always will be, the hero of our family!