My home is officially for sale. I have a realator contracted, an MLS # and three showings to date. I'm not happy about it, but I'm fulfilling my obligation and trusting that God will provide us a place when this one sells.
The children are concerned, especially my sweet firstborn. He is questioning whether he will have his own room and feels that it will not be our home if and when we move. His concerns are valid. I worry about those things, too.
It has taken me a long time to come to the place where I could take this step. I made every attempt to refinance, but those efforts did not go through and I am unwilling to spend more money going down an uncertain road. I'm trusting that for reasons unknown to me, God has blocked the path for me to purchase this house on my own. I can think of several worst-case scenarios where I will be glad to not be burdened by
Intellectually, I know this is the right, required action. Our home is the final joint legal tie that I have with ex-H and it will be good to clear that connection. Additionally, home in our region are on the market for an average of 26 months, so it is unlikely that anything would happen quickly. Emotionally, I'm sad to have a "For Sale" sign in the yard. It feels a bit defeating that I wasn't able to refinance and I do not have a plan for when the home sells.
The unknown is the most unsettling.